The 9 Rules of Relationships. 1, everyone has their own way of relating. 2, make your own rules & be happy, enjoy it. 3, count the person's pluses—always count up. 4, you see other person through yourself first—they are a mirror. 5, relationships are given to you so you can grow & gain your personality. 6, don't use the other person to fulfill a need, you have to be fulfilled first. 7, you have to be complete & happy in yourself. 8, relationships are their own entity, you have to nurture it, feed it & grow it. 9, be big enough to accept the person for who they are. Featuring a powerful love meditation to open the heart.