Don’t look down upon illusion. Everything is an illusion. Your partner becomes the spokesperson for who you really are. You know a relationship is going in the right direction with the combined aura of the partners is enhanced. It’s one or the other. When you live with somebody long enough there is intense irritation sometimes and intense warmth.
If you lined up 10 of your exes, they would all say the same thing about your anger. The common denominator is you. Anytime you’re fighting as a yogi in a relationship you really must get sober with yourself. Is this really what the world needs? Your need to be right causes battle. If you want a committed relationship, then drop the vibe that you’re going to devour that person.
Time for self-reflection. There are subtle adjustments you can make in your 10 Body System that will make you so much more attractive. That is what this class focuses on. Loosen some of the bottled-up emotional stuff and become more alive and embodied. You literally become 10-20x more attractive.
All the thinking and linear movements you do in a day is not going to get you the relationship you want. If you’re walking around as a big bundle of contraction and neuroses. Unpack that in this practice with these yogic technologies.
Here is a cool yogic tip for women in heteronormative relationship - look at a man’s feet and see how he grounds on the earth. That’s the first sign of the path he is on in life. If you’re in relationship and not getting what you want, welcome to relationship. Get over the tit for tat. Amplify your own natural gifts. Lead with these and forget the rest.
Advanced homework assignment: make a list of all the ways your past partners have gotten in the ring for you. They are saintly.
If you can hold the pose you will evoke the thing you want.
2018 Global RA MA Meditation for Auric Projection (35:08)
A set to make the subtle adjustments that magnify your attractiveness (47:15).
